When it comes to performing oral sex , it can be as helpful knowing what not to do as what you should be doing. With some help from my friends, here's a definitive guide of what to avoid when you're going down:. If your hand skills are good enough, you barely have to use your lips. You can basically breathe on it and he'll come.

It has come to my attention that there is a terrible rumor going around about men: that we're selfish in bed. Hey, I'll admit, there's not a man I know who will decline oral sex from a woman he fancies. I mean, it's a blowjob! It's one of the all-time greatest discoveries—just ahead of Columbus finding America. Still, I take issue with this rumor. Because as much as men like to receive, we also love to give.

And most of their responses were shocking! Turns out not only do they love receiving oral sex So listen up, ladies. These guys are enjoying giving it as much as we enjoy recieving!

Lack of oral sex came alongside a general lack of commitment to my sexual pleasure, unless it was easy and complemented what he wanted to do anyway. When it came to oral sex he would recoil as if disgusted I guess I just thought there was something wrong with my vagina. Skip navigation!